Art of faking

 

Art of faking is taught to everyone since birth. From makeup for new born babies to fake tears after death of a relative , we are made to follow the societal norms and rules for the satisfaction of some others who are not at all in terms with our inner visions. 

Babies are given mark with Kajal so that they don't get any evil eye .Such things may exist . But rather than preventing people to say Ill comments , we make our babies full of unwanted powder and marks making them like clowns. To be Frank , if a beauty conscious person is not doing this , babies will look like clowns only. Many things we do are just as per someone's advices without any proper explanation also. Living just to avoid criticism in itself is a sort of hypocrisy. 

As they grow up , we make children pursue things as per the market demands and ofcourse relatives demands. Who gave the rights to disturb the natural course of growth and development of a child to people who dont have knowledge about depth of life ? 

Some people think themselves to be experienced only on the basis that they have looked home , premises and some people upto this age.  Experience , wisdom and broad vision about life are different entities. One can become aged , but not mature in thoughts or actions . This can also happen.

When it comes to marriage , such people will make sure that children get into black holes unable to come out freely and express what exactly they need in their life. Openly expressing ideas is also considered to be a sin by some of the closed mentality people. 

It takes enormous amount of thinking and efforts to come out of this vicious cycle and raise our voice with full strength. 

May be considering this , great people have already advised us to think for ourselves and select what is right or wrong for us.