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ATTITUDE CHANGES LIFE.

Experiences makes one know the world perfectly.. It is his or her unique personality which decides how to react to that situation. Some may prepare themselves to fight with adversities . Some may feel insecure and try to escape from the situation. This is an experience once told by a journalist about his student. Like an average indian girl she also had her dreams .. dreams about a perfect family , education , job and ofcourse marriage. But her fate was not upto the mark.. Besides being an alcoholic her father developed paranoid behaviour to her mother. When trust is broken in a relationship , its all gone. He lost trust in his wife and the poor daughter had to silently suffer all the quarrels. Being fed up with this and losing hope about  future  , her elder sister committed suicide. She also could choose that  path but she decided to continue her studies amidst  the storm. In the night when her parents quarrelled , she studied without considering that.. For her, this di

I have a question... Why God is like this?

I have a question in my mind... If anyone can suggest an ample answer  for this ,please do it.. In this wonderful yet unpredictable world,many people come and go ... Some people do righteous things,some others fill the world with destructive thoughts,some others shrink into their own lives,some others illuminate the society with selfless services.. What all the religions teach us is to be on the right path always and not to cultivate evil ideas. It is a fact that creating shortcuts for success by any means is the real mantra of the mankind in this century. That is , often we say practical aspect is something different from documented knowledge. Inspite of knowing this reality,some guys will do hard work and live modestly without even thoughts of harming others.People loving power and control over others ascend in life even by harassing innocent people.The learned pious guys lose everything in the race of life. Indian ideology points out the reason as sins done in the previous

THIS IS A TRUE STORY.....

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THIS IS A TRUE STORY..... He, had lost his parents....and with his brother ,he was living somehow.. He did not think about the rest of his life.. but he knew life is not that much easy.. Some trivial incidents in school life with friends as co-actors,some  memories about some one whom he cared and loved silently are his most valuable assets in life.... She was a sleeping beauty for him,from the first moment they saw in the class, he felt a strange  connection with her.. He did not try  to attract her by playing gimmicks,only he knew was to worship her silently in his mind,spend hours to watch how she used to talk and walk around with friends.. She remained quiet, but her cute smile could not hide her mind from him.He felt waves of happiness around him.. They did not go for  a date,nor they wanted to cheat their family. The religious barriers created an unknown space between their families. For this relationship, even the teachers scolded him badly. He was injured at mi

RAILWAY JOURNEYS ALWAYS GIVES YOU A GIST OF HUMAN LIVES..

RAILWAY JOURNEYS ALWAYS  GIVES YOU A  GIST OF HUMAN LIVES... YES.....all will be familiar with scenes like this in railway journeys..... Today I had a rail journey from Coimbatore to Kottayam and I  am sharing my small observations  made today about human life ...  IN A RAILWAY STATION,  A variety of people from Delhi to Kanyakumari. The age old saga of unity  in diversity comes to mind... Then  after some time they become crowds rushing for one common cause..catching the train..! Somehow all will manage to get in ...then starts the issue to get a seat...after capturing seats,they go on  comfortably chatting with whomever they find with a smile  on the opposite seats... Toilets will not be FINE ,,yet they will sigh after some time thinking who is going to come again to ENJOY IT.....and happily they will enter it among once upon a time stories in mind!! Coming to my experience.....I  bought Chetan bhagatjis 'What young india wants' and was reading in the train

DO YOUR DUTY FOR WELLNESS OF THE MANKIND.

EXPERIENCES ARE EXPERIMENTS MEANT  FOR  BETTERMENT  OF FUTURE  LIFE . REMEMBER  EVERY  PERSON  ENTERING  YOUR  LIFE  WILL  EITHER  TEACH  YOU  SOMETHING  OR LEARN  SOMETHING  FROM  YOU . YOU  HAVE  TWO  OPTIONS  LEFT  ALWAYS - FIGHT  OR  FLIGHT .. CIRCUMSTANCES  MAKE  YOU  CHOOSE  ONE .. THINK  YOURSELF  AS A  FOLLOWER OF GOD AND  DO YOUR  DUTY WITHOUT  EXPECTING BENEFITS . KARMANYEVADHIKARASTE MA PHALESHU KADACHANA... SRIMAD BHAGVAD GITA SAYS IT ALL... THESE ARE MERE SCRIPTURAL GUIDANCE.. CHANGE HAS  TO OCCUR  FROM  YOUR  OWN LEVELS  OF MIND BECAUSE  YOU  ALONE  ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR  YOU DEEDS...

ASTROLOGY SHOWS ABOUT YOUR PERSONALITY TOO... A USEFUL WEBSITE..

 BEING INTERESTED IN ASTROLOGY,,I HAVE SEARCHED IT ON WEB ALSO.. YOU ALL WILL BE  INTERESTED TO KNOW YOURSELF FIRST, YOUR OWN INNATE PERSONALITY.... THIS SITE IS FREE AND ITS FREE ASTROLOGICAL REPORTS I FOUND VERY USEFUL TO UNDERSTAND A PERSON'S BASIC NATURE. IF YOU KNOW , your date of birth,  birth time and place of birth, you can easily  find out by yourself.. 5 DIFFERENT  REPORTS ARE AVAILABLE ABOUT PERSONAL HOROSCOPE AND ASTRO- COMPATIBILITY FOR COUPLES ALSO GIVEN SEPERATE...   I  LIKED THIS WEBSITE ..ITS ACCURATE TOO... OK..CHECK IT OUT... www.Thefutureminders.com

I DON'T KNOW...!!!!

It seems to be  hot on a cool chilly  day... Whether its my mind or feelings I don't know.. It seems to be like an ocean in my heart, Whether its a tornado over there,or not, I don't know.. I don't know God,what hopelessness is.. Whether its the feeling now I am feeling or not,I don't know.. I think that there is no hope for hopelessness also,is nt that hopelessness I feel now? Decades to live ,millenium to cover,whats the value of a human life,I don't know.. What is the conflict in my mind,I don't know.. I don't know what  to pray to you God.. I cannot express my feelings to you ,oh,my God,till right now. I only know to say my thanks to you,Oh,my GOD,,,,that you are doing me favour always...this is all I KNOW....!!

FAILED OR GAINED STRENGTH FOR A SUCCESS ?

B eing  meritorious is not  valuable  unless  you  try  to  be  helpful  for  the  progress  of  the  human  race  in some  way . You  may  be   an  average  student  ,yet  if  you  have  a good  mind  to  be  a helping  hand  for  others, you  you  will  reach  heights  in  your  future  life . Think  why  always  the rank holders achieve  great  successes ... TRY TRY TRY AGAIN IS THE ONLY  KEY  TO SUCCESS . FAILURES ARE THE  STEPPING  STONES  T O SUCCESSES .

MARRIAGE-AN EXPENSIVE GAMBLING OR WHAT?

Recently , attended a camp. I got some sparking thoughts after the sessions there. Often, indian weddings are known as big fat indian wedding. Unnecessary expenditure for ornaments and food stands first in this area.  For some hours, spending this much of money will of course lead to untoward effects in that family and affect the whole society gradually.  Cant we think of less expensive marriages? Think of helping some poor children by providing them books or study materials if your family  member is getting married rather than spending lakhs for makeup, jewels and garments. Remember simplicity is also a followable style ...for Gandhiji taught us earlier itself. These are just hints of some thoughts.It depends on u to analyse and decide. BEING INDEPENDENT IS TO BE  PRACTICED IN THOUGHTS AND DEEDS.                              REST U CAN DECIDE INDEPENDENTLY.....

comments are always welcomed.

This blog has been created to share the experiences and views of an ordinary citizen in the world like many of us. So there exists no discretion categories regarding any thing. Expressing opinions freely and open is important. As all are not perfect in every opinion, mistakes also will be there . Open discussion about such things and making corrections will be possible only by comments posted by  viewers.So please post your opinions about my posts in this blog. 

Experiences -how u relate to them.

E xperiences are experiments meant for polishing our life... Those tear drops and sweat represent, we are dynamic in life..  The progress may be slow, but we are growing day by day...   Welcome them with a positive attitude...with joy and strong perseverence.. FROM THE FEEDING BOTTLE TO THE GRAVE YARD,,, LIFE LIKE A KALEIDOSCOPE HAS ITS OWN REFLECTIONS FOR EVERY THING.. IT DEPENDS ON U HOW TO RELATE TO UR EXPERIENCES...MAKE IT GOOD OR BAD UR MIND DECIDES WHETHER TO MAKE IT A ROPE FOR MAKING THE CARPET OF  LIFE OR FOR ENDING UR LIFE ON A TREE.... SO....TRAIN AND REFORM URSELF NOT OTHERS...FIRST..

LEARN UR ROOTS..

THIS POST IS DEDICATED FOR CREATING AWARENESS REGARDING THE IMPORTANCE OF LEARNING MOTHER TONGUE AND CULTURE..  In the present era, people migrate and immigrate often. But knowing your roots is important .   U learn various languages...but u should know to read and write your mother tongue first.. first respect and care your mother, then go for other people.. Many people boast of their tradition without knowing it properly...\ Be frank and open in your views...start learning from the basics...ur own language and culture.first. Ur next generation may be born and brought up  in another country,,yet they should be aware of the importance of their culture...   A global unity is expected and unity in diversity is the most beautiful aspect of this. Pray for the peace of the entire human race..lokaha  samastha sukhino bhavanthu..

god is great.....a small story..

     God is great... With god u are hero without god u are zero.. These sentences are my all time favourites. A simple story..     A man died , reached heaven and met god there.. He told to god . .i am not satisfied with ur deeds because i prayed u all the time yet u gave me difficult situations.. u didnt help me at all.  God smiled and showed him a thing .wherever the person went four footprints were imprinted on the ground. When he entered the tedious part of his life , only two prints.. To his surprise, god told him ..  oh my child , those foot prints are not urs , but mine because i was carrying u in those difficult times so that u dont suffer ... Think the greatness of our creator and his selfless love and care for us. Be thankful for him always....

lets start by thanking god...

G O D - GENERATOR , OPERATOR , DESTRUCTER...  Brahma+saraswathi is  making some thing new.... Vishnu+lakshmi is maintaining it  well with prosperity. Siva+sakthi is making corrections or even a destruction as a better option.. saraswathy represents knowledge  lakshmi represents wealth      sakthi represents power.

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Hi guysssssssss..................its me SREEDEVI N.V. ---- U can expect more upcoming posts ......stay tuned .... ok. ... . see you soon...