Conversational depths
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What is the purpose of conveying ideas to each other ? What is real communication and a little different version of it - a conversation ?
You convey ideas to each other so as to know deeper each other and understand more. Real communication can be verbal or written , even a mental telepathic one. But to be a conversationalist , one needs to know more topics , to subtle levels and convey that to the person sitting next to them.
In interviews , when it becomes a meaningful conversation, it becomes enjoyable and informative.
The first thing you need to be a real conversationalist is to become open and broad minded. Be in an open state to ask and answer. It's difficult in a formal setup , but if the vibes are matching between two people, great talks can happen.
Let things flow , ideas get synchronised in between both of the people involved. In this way , these conversations can prove to be really fruitful.
Often more than the words and sentences involved , it is the presence and expressions of the person that make the impression more valuable . We often are interested to hear the change of tone of voice also in between conversations. Even the nodding of head and silence in between with a smile can add charisma to a person's overall charming personality.
We can also sense some things about their past life , present life and overall vision about life from their talks. There comes one of the greatest treasures that can be passed to others . Narration about one's own experiences . This thing which is often ignored in casual talks is something which should be added to day to day conversations too . Afterall , every one becomes just a memorable picture after years. What still remains is their memories and anecdotes.
Conversations are meant to spread wisdom. They are meant to pass messages to the next generation , they are meant to give vital clues helping others to mould their own lives.
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